After twenty years of happiness

Twenty years later the well-being is probably human nature
like to complain, like how life is now unsatisfactory, but how the future will not necessarily be perfect. I'm sure: Now is the most beautiful, happy in the moment!

remember as a child, I am looking forward to growing up. Because I feel so grown up, parents will no longer bugger me. Can be thought of turbid water to turbid water, does not want to sleep do not sleep at noon, it must be very happy.

so I really grew up, parents did not give a bugger, and can be had that happiness does not come. Because, although no one will control me turbid water, but I find that the ideal had too little. And, get this little freedom in the same time, there has been a new and greater are not free. Such as eight to work, even 5 minutes late, leading also to the face to see. And that face, much more than the ugly child of parents.

So, I began to miss the child but that carefree life, seems to think that is happiness. At the same time, began a new vision: Shashi Hou flexible working can be implemented must be very happy to be sleepy to sleep a few points, then do not be alarm awakened dreams, then do not do not even face wash, socks forget to wear, go visit the Office of the stampede.

years later, finally achieved flexible working. Moreover, with senior members of their own hybrid, you can like go to work to go to work, even if no one at home that you. But I found that when the expected happy and run without a trace. Because, with age, there is no alarm, nor was up late the morning blessing. Even wake up before dawn, nothing to stare into the dawn. While no one ask you, can it become a habit to work on time, flexible working and what stakeholders can there be happiness!

recall decades of work experience I have found that every unit will have a feeling awkward leadership, will be looking for my trouble. So, always hope that the leaders often transferred, and who stubbornly believe that as long as the transferred work will be very happy. On several occasions, he did not take me away, do not stay here for God, God's own place to stay. However, each will find anywhere, colored, and a leadership go hand in hand against me. So he started looking forward to: day wife boiled the woman, to I can have the final say, no longer leading the gas, it must be very happy.

years later, Zhong Yuao out of his head: he became a leader, you can insufferably arrogant, let others see my face any more. But I found that the original desire of the happiness or did not come. For, while no one for you to make irresponsible remarks, but how should I bear any responsibility, big or small should be finalized my heart how so tired? And how have the people around become so hypocritical, himself a ass, someone will say incense.

Thus, meeting every day, entertainment, listen to reports, layout work, busy like a gyro I like to start a new vision: someday be able to live a leisurely tour after the holy, no longer Guannameduo things like fishing to fishing, to playing cards to play cards, do not look at the hypocrisy of so many faces, listen to those disgusting lie, look at those boring documents, that is happiness.

flies, instant retired, no one really wanted me to take any responsibility, no longer had the annoying phone call, Kadoba also really cold to the thin horse, all the time is his own, and I have found that where the original desire of happiness What is happiness, is simply Renzouchaliang the cold and endless lonely.

Thus, a person sitting in the setting sun, began to think about life: my life, from small to big, from big to the old, feel that if what, tomorrow will be happy, why can wish in one after attaining happiness still did not come? At this time, has truly understood the sentence:

not now if you feel happy, feel happy is changed, or is passed in happiness, then I am afraid there is a real life happiness is immune! Is not it? Not to the future, the past is over. If we do not seize every moment and not taken seriously, always thinking about tomorrow, or have gone unseen yesterday, we will forever live in the tension and feel the loss. With a little bit of life away, eventually leaving only three words:

So if you want to know 20 years will not be happy to personal attitude is concerned, look at the current state to know: If you're happy moment, after 20 years should be happy; if you There are too many things to send in tomorrow, 20 years later, whether or not they wish to achieve, you may not feel truly happy.

reason is simple, the desire has never been the source of happiness, but the root of all suffering. A desire to meet, and immediately generate new, like me, you can easily meet the desire of turbid water, will have the desire to sleep late, again and again, endless.

So, bearing in mind the lessons learned, happy in the moment, in your hands every day, even every moment, and certainly not in the past or the future.

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